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Tuesday, January 1, 2013

New Year's Resolutions for Your Career

Forget about vowing to floss more or lose 10 pounds--why not make 2013 the year that you focus your resolutions on your career? Here are 10 to get you started.
1. Ask for time off and take it without guilt. If you've been putting off taking a vacation because there's never a good time to get away, resolve to talk to your boss right after the new year to get some time off on the calendar. If there's never a good time to get away, then you'll never take a break--and that's bad for your mental health and even bad for your employer, since rested and recharged employees do a better job.
2. Stop complaining about your job. It's easy to get caught up in complaining about your work, your boss, or your co-workers, but constant complaining has a way of making unhappiness worse. Instead, talk to people directly when you have a beef so that they have a chance to make things better. And if your job is really that unpleasant, focus on finding a new one instead of surrounding yourself in negativity.
3. Thank people. Has someone made your life at work easier, connected you with a helpful contact, or simply been a pleasant person to interact with this year? Tell them--and vow to keep thanking people into the new year. Even better, take the time to write out your thanks in a note or email and it will probably be treasured for a long time to come. Never under-estimate just how much people value being openly appreciated.
4. Stop texting in meetings. You might think that no one notices or that everyone does it, but if you're constantly checking your phone or texting during meetings, you're decreasing your engagement--and if it's a small meeting, you might be insulting the people you're meeting with, too. Resolve to start giving your colleagues the courtesy of your full attention (even if you have to leave your phone behind to do it).
5. Ask for a raise. If you've been doing a great job but haven't had a raise in a year or more, resolve to ask your boss for a salary review. People often shy away from asking for raises in a tight economy, but if your value to the company has increased, it's perfectly reasonable to ask for that to be reflected in your salary.
6. Get involved with a professional society. Find a professional society in your field and get involved with its work. By joining committees or attending meetings, you'll expand your network, raise your visibility, and often get additional accomplishments for your resume.
7. Break a bad habit. Whether it's interrupting people, getting defensive when you receive feedback, or resisting change, vow to overcome it in 2013. Bad habits can start to feel like they're simply part of who you are, but they're all things that we can change--and you'll often see it pay off in your career and even in your general quality of life if you do.
8. Throw out your resume and write a new one focusing on achievements, not just job duties. Most people's resumes are bland and uninspiring, so vow to make yours an achievement-focused document that will truly wow a hiring manager. And do this even if you're not job-searching, so that it's ready whenever you are--or if a great opportunity falls unexpectedly in your lap.
9. Ask for feedback. If you wait for your boss to give you feedback on what you do well and where you could do better, you might wait a long time. Lots of managers aren't skilled at offering feedback on their own but will respond well to specific questions like, "What do you think I'm best at, and where could I focus on improving?" And even if you don't much like your boss, asking the question might get you some interesting insights.
10. Take control of your career. Unhappy with your job? Start actively working to find a new one. Want to change fields? Figure out what it's going to take and start down that path. Unsure what you want to do? Come up with a plan to figure it out. Whatever the obstacle is between you and being happy with your work life, make 2013 the year that you stop being passively unhappy about it and start taking active steps to changing it.
Alison Green writes the popular Ask a Manager blog, where she dispenses advice on career, job search, and management issues. She's also the co-author of Managing to Change the World: The Nonprofit Manager's Guide to Getting Results, and former chief of staff of a successful nonprofit organization, where she oversaw day-to-day staff management, hiring, firing, and employee development.

Top Cricket Photos of 2012

Ricky Ponting of Australia addresses a media conference with his daughter Emmy after playing his last International cricket match during day four of the third Test between Australia and South Africa at WACA in Perth, Australia.

Australia v South Africa - Third Test: Day 4


Pune Warriors India captain Sourav Ganguly reacts after being run-out during the IPL Twenty20 cricket match between Pune Warriors India and Chennai Super Kings at The Subrata Roy Sahara Stadium in Pune on April 14, 2012.
Pune Warriors India captain Sourav Gangu 
Pakistan disabled cricketer Farhan Saeed
Cricket Pictures of the Week
Cricket Pictures of the Week
Cricket Pictures of the Week
Pakistan's spinner Saeed Ajmal celebrates after he dismissed England's cricketer Eoin Morgan (unseen) during the first day of the opening Test match between Pakistan and England at the Dubai I
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India's Sachin Tendulkar poses with fans before he prepares for training at the nets prior to the opening day of cricket against Australia in Adelaide, Australia, Monday, Jan. 23, 2012. (AP Photo/
Australia v India - Fourth Test: Day 2
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Australia v India: Game 2
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Australia v Sri Lanka - Tri-Series Final Game 1
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QLD v TAS - Sheffield Shield Final: Day 2
Indian batsman Sachin Tendulkar reacts after scoring his hundred century (100 runs) during the one day international (ODI) Asia Cup cricket match between India and Bangladesh at the Sher-e-Bangla Nati
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Kohli upbeat, but may be rested


Chennai: Virat Kohli was walking with a slight limp, but maintained that he was “absolutely fine.”
“I’m absolutely fine,”Kohli told The Telegraph at the Taj Coromandel late on Sunday.
Kohli slipped and fell on his right knee while bowling in the first ODI against Pakistan, at the Chepauk.
Gutsy that he is, Kohli refused to be stretchered off, but had been in enormous pain for four-five minutes.
Kohli underwent an MRI scan, after which the Board issued a media release. Among other things, it said: “All his major ligaments are fine. There is minimal injury fluid in his knee. His condition will be monitored.”
It’s not clear whether Kohli is going to play in the second ODI, at the Eden, on Thursday. Perhaps, he will be rested, for plenty of cricket remains this season.
Like most of his teammates, Kohli is heading home, to New Delhi, for a day and is going to report in Calcutta on Tuesday morning.

Ballad of Tony Romo: Chalk up another painful finale to Cowboy QB's career of heartbreaks


Tony Romo (Getty Images)

LANDOVER, Md. – Into another stadium tunnel Tony Romo walked Sunday night, a loser again in the season's final game. This stroll must be so tiring for him now. He limped along the floor of the concourse that leads to the visitors' locker room at FedEx Field. His legs ached. Nobody walked near him. Once more he would endure his suffering alone.
There are the Dallas Cowboys and then there is Tony Romo. As much as they all talked about team and togetherness, Romo will forever be an entity bigger than all of them. It is on his shoulders that they rise or fall. He understood this as he hobbled away from more imploded expectations, this time a 28-18 loss that gave the NFC East title to the Washington Redskins. It was the third time in five years he has handed away the division on the final day. All of Sunday night's wretched scenarios danced in his mind: The three interceptions. The receivers missed. Another season so close and yet once more empty.

"Shake it off," a FedEx Field security woman said as he headed for the locker room. Rob Jackson's pick of Tony Romo doomed the Cowboys on Sunday. (AP)
If only that was so easy to do.
Never in our recent time has there been a player so much like a Shakespearean character. He pulls the Cowboys, dysfunction and all, through the final weeks of seasons, building anticipation until it seems certain they are on the verge of THE year, the one that will end in a hail of confetti only to let everyone down in the game that matters most. His fatal flaws are always the same: bad passes, missed chances, balls that should never have been thrown.
"I feel as though I let my team down," he said later, standing on a stage in a small interview room. "We did such a great job in those last five or 10 minutes to win a lot of games. We were back in that position again, and it's on me. It's a very frustrating thing to think about."
He did not want to discuss his legacy on Sunday night, saying that such a conversation could come only after his career was over, and the records and statistics were tabulated. But at age 32 and with just one more year on his contract, the window is closing on his chance to win playoff games. That elusive Super Bowl seems far, far away.
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Down another tunnel beneath the stadium walked a new quarterback with rising acclaim. Robert Griffin III wore a dark suit and a cap that said the Redskins were NFC East champions. There's something almost magical about Griffin, who never makes the fatal mistakes that Romo does. In November, RG3's Redskins were 3-6 and looked as if they were through. Their coach, Mike Shanahan, said as much after a loss to the Carolina Panthers. But Griffin challenged his teammates to be something better. He drove them to seven straight wins. And in the din of Sunday night's win he looked much like a man who will take Washington to several more division titles.

Romo, on the other hand, looked old. He still spoke thoughtfully of a bright future. He realized the Cowboys have changed in the last two years, getting younger and faster. He kept saying again and again the team has to get better.
"It will take me a little while," he said when asked if he will think about the future. "I put everything I had into this. It consumes all of your thoughts and actions. It's a hard thing when it ends like this. I don't know how else to explain it, but it is going to be a rough time for me because I know how much effort and time it took to get in this position."
He was asked how he handles these defeats, and he started to talk about caring too much about winning, then stopped.
"I'm lucky to have a great wife and a great kid," he said. "You have to hang on those things and your faith when you feel like you're down. When you work so hard at something it's hard when you don't accomplish it. It's even more difficult when you have a chance. It is right there and you aren't able to produce."
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The most damning thing was that Romo did have a great chance to take the Cowboys to the playoffs on Sunday night. Maybe a final chance. This had not been a good game for them. They had lost receivers Miles Austin and Dez Bryant to injuries. Romo was intercepted twice in the early part of the game and should have been again with a pass that smacked Redskins linebacker London Fletcher so hard in the chest it bounded off Fletcher's shoulder pads. Had Fletcher intercepted the ball he would have returned it for a touchdown.

Tony Romo shares a moment with Robert Griffin III after the Redskins won the NFC East. (AP)Yet all that was forgotten with 3:33 left in the game as the Cowboys stood on their own 15-yard line, down just three points. A fraying Redskins defense stretched before him. A quick pass to Jason Witten went for 14 yards. Dallas was moving. A spoiled legacy could be rewritten.
Then came the linebacker Romo didn't see. This was Rob Jackson, standing close to his defensive end. Washington's pass rush was closing in. Romo thought he could lob a pass over it and into the hands of running back DeMarco Murray. What he never counted on was Jackson splitting away from his defensive end. He never imagined Jackson leaping high into the air. He never anticipated Jackson pulling the ball down against his chest for the third and final interception.
Later, after the old classroom-style clock in the visitor's locker room said Sunday had turned into Monday, Romo thought about that moment and he said he wished he could reverse everything about that pass. He said he wished he could have run from the rush. He said he wished he could have thrown the ball away. He said he wished he could have seen Jackson breaking from the defensive end.
And that forever is the story of Romo: On his way to greatness he never sees that Rob Jackson hanging on the fringe. He spends so much time catching up, driving the Cowboys back that he keeps missing the gaping pothole in front of him until he tumbles inside.

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One person close to the Cowboys, with an understanding of its locker room, said the team's problem is internal leadership. That is not team owner Jerry Jones or coach Jason Garrett. That is not the carnival that annualy plays in a place called Valley Ranch, but rather something that lives among the players. Indirectly it is a finger, pointed like many, at the quarterback among others. Somehow he is unable to pull everything together in the way that Griffin or Eli Manning or any of the others who have beaten him in the division have.
Late Sunday night, long after most of the Cowboys had left the locker room, Romo lingered in the shower. He finally limped to a stool that sat under a piece of tape with his No. 9 scrawled across it. He winced as he pulled on a pair of gray suit pants. Even the act of putting on his socks caused him to close his eyes with pain. As he stood up to leave, he asked a reporter standing nearby to help him pull his throwing arm through his jacket sleeve. That, as well, hurt too much.
Then the steel door closed behind him.
Perhaps it was fitting that the sound it made was a slam.

Best Beauty Products and Real Beauty Gold Star Awards: Best makeup from 2012

Dolce & Gabbana Lace Collection Glow Bronzing Powder
Refine your beauty routine with the best products of 2012 for your eyes, lips, face, and nails.
Dolce & Gabbana Lace Collection Glow Bronzing Powder
This fancy fashion line is always parading models in lace down the runway. Now, the brand showcases their signature fabric with this pretty shimmery bronzing powder.
$47; saks.com


Buxom Color Choreography Eyeshadow Palette 
Buxom Color Choreography Eyeshadow Palette
Steal the show with this customizable five-shade palette that offers a range of matte, shimmering, and sparkly finishes in a perfectly portable package.
$36; amazon.com



Clé de Peau Silky Cream Foundation 
Clé de Peau Silky Cream Foundation with SPF 23
This rich, full coverage cream foundation combines flawless coverage and lightweight texture to make your skin look absolutely luminous!
$120; nordstrom.com
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Dr. Hauschka 'Inner Glow' Lipstick 
Dr. Hauschka 'Inner Glow' Lipstick
These subtle translucent lipsticks are 100% natural and add the perfect touch of shimmery color to your kisser. Enriched with castor seed oil, they also provide a richness that moisturizes and conditions.
$24; drhauschka.com
Lancôme Longwear Nail Lacquer
Lancôme Longwear Nail Lacquer
For a bold style statement in a flash, dress your digits in these super quick-dry, glossy hues.
But the best part? They will stay chip-free for days.
$30; amazon.com
Laura Geller Ombre Baked Blush in Pink Blossom 
Laura Geller Ombre Baked Blush in Pink Blossom
We're still loving the ombré trend: totally cool, gradient hues on clothes and hair, and now makeup! These colors are actually baked on a terracotta pan in Italy for 24 hours before the product makes its way to your makeup case. Use the dual-sided brush and bellissima!
$32.50; laurageller.com
Lorac 'Unzipped' Shimmer & Matte Eye Shadow Palette
Lorac 'Unzipped' Shimmer & Matte Eye Shadow Palette
This universally flattering nude eyeshadow palette contains ten highly pigmented shades that will sex up any look.
$40; sephora.com
L'Oréal 'Youth Code' BB Cream
L'Oréal 'Youth Code' BB Cream
We can all agree that BB creams are awesome, right? This all-in-one skincare solution with light-reflecting particles and a hint of tint, evens, illuminates, corrects, moisturizes, and protects against UV rays in one step!
$11; amazon.com
NARS Velvet Matte Lip Pencil

NARS Velvet Matte Lip Pencil

This easy-to-use rouge combines the convenience of a pencil with the application of a lipstick in a jumbo-size crayon design. Not to mention the non-drying formula lasts for hours–it takes us straight through work and to the after hours party.
$24; narscosmetics.com
NYX Cosmetics 'The Curve' Liquid Eyeliner