Your friends and relatives have known you both to be the perfect
couple, balancing each other in all aspects of life just like ShahRukh
Khan and Rani Mukherjee in “Chalte Chalte”. However, little do they know
that even perfectly happy couples go through trials and tribulations
and yours is not an exception. If you wish to avoid such plights in your
relationship and not end up leaving your partner’s house as the heroine
of the film does, take a glimpse at the following mistakes that cause
fights even between the best matched couples.
1. Distributing housework
This might appear to be one of the best ways to be out of any fall-outs, but studies show couples fight the most when attempting to divide household chores on a 50-50 basis. Divide the work in accordance with the things which you both are good at, which will not give you a chance to lash at each other for being imperfect.
2. Money matters
Money reigns high on the reasons behind fights between couples. Being in debt is even more dangerous and to avoid such circumstances from cropping up, sit with your partner to discuss the monthly budget and expenses from the day one of your relationship.
3. Waiting for that perfect mood for sexThis has been found to be one of the biggest mistakes couples make. The fact is, most of the time you might not be in the mood and waiting for the right moment might even worsen the gap between you too. Getting cosy with your beloved will not cost you anything and so why wait for ambience to be perfectly romantic?
4. Nagging all the way
Perpetual nagging is the most annoying things to bear and is often responsible for making the other partner to just burst out. If you are not arriving at a resolution, it is better to leave the matter for the night. The following morning will see you both much calmed down and better harnessed to resolve the issues.
5. Not speaking your mind
you can't expect your partner to understand everything that goes inside your mind, It is undoubtedly another of the common issues making couples go mad at each other. Be transparent about what you feel and tell him if you do need a hug after a bad day at work.
Finally, just because you have been hitched does not mean you can take
each other for granted. Understanding your partner's needs and
respecting each other's feelings is the key to a happy relationship.
1. Distributing housework
This might appear to be one of the best ways to be out of any fall-outs, but studies show couples fight the most when attempting to divide household chores on a 50-50 basis. Divide the work in accordance with the things which you both are good at, which will not give you a chance to lash at each other for being imperfect.
2. Money matters
Money reigns high on the reasons behind fights between couples. Being in debt is even more dangerous and to avoid such circumstances from cropping up, sit with your partner to discuss the monthly budget and expenses from the day one of your relationship.
3. Waiting for that perfect mood for sexThis has been found to be one of the biggest mistakes couples make. The fact is, most of the time you might not be in the mood and waiting for the right moment might even worsen the gap between you too. Getting cosy with your beloved will not cost you anything and so why wait for ambience to be perfectly romantic?
4. Nagging all the way
Perpetual nagging is the most annoying things to bear and is often responsible for making the other partner to just burst out. If you are not arriving at a resolution, it is better to leave the matter for the night. The following morning will see you both much calmed down and better harnessed to resolve the issues.
5. Not speaking your mind
you can't expect your partner to understand everything that goes inside your mind, It is undoubtedly another of the common issues making couples go mad at each other. Be transparent about what you feel and tell him if you do need a hug after a bad day at work.
6. Baby blues
While you might be craving to go through the beautiful emotions of
parenthood, give your relationship some time to revel in the glorious
moments together. Your nappy-changing sessions can wait till both of you
are ready.
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